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I'm a new girl to the scene who hopes for love and bondage

I'm a Goth girl who has been interested in the bondage/BDSM world since I was in my early teens. I have done things like self bondage and all, but I want more than that; I want a partner who would also be my Master/Mistress. However, I'm suuuuper shy about this world, and just a tiny bit insecure about my body, so I need someone who will be able to bind and gag me but not be judgemental about my body.

Also, I'm not very solid on the financial stuff yet, so I don't have much to go by on that regard. Sorry T^T

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageCanadian
BuildCurvy
Height163 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorOther
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureChest
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDepression
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeDD
My AttractivenessBelow average

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleOvernight Stocker at Walmart

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchI need someone who can teach me new things- not just about the world of bondage, but just new things in general. I want to have many days of laughs, fun, and adventure (even though my personal budget doesn't work well for that). And in terms of bondage, I need for my partner to be knowledgeable, dominant, but... there's certain fetishes and other things that I'm not interested in or feel ultra uncomfortable about, and I'm not very good with the idea of "tell me what to do and I obey" stuff... I'm more of a bind-and-gag-me type person (to fondle every now and again) type person, so... be gentle, I guess? XD
Our first dateThe standard stuff: dinner, movie, and/or some other type of activity. Shopping can also be nice if looking for Goth stuff or even bondage/sexual stuff... as long as you don't mind the fact that 99% of the time I don't have money because of debts to pay off and such right now.

But I'm usually down to discuss what kind of date to go on as well, so yeah :3

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle
My role isUnsure
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Femdom, Mummification, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasUnfortunately I have no such encounter ^__^;;

Fetishes

FetishesHigh Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:I don't really care for sex
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anything anal, anything relating cigarettes, burning or other types of activity that inflicts open wounds

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI've always been wanting to be mummified, put in a latex vacbed, and subjected to sensory deprivation... while being fondled and/or having a vibrator to stimulate me
Fantasy locationHotel/motel
Fantasy sex partner:One that will be able to put me under bondage and toy with me, but make me feel safe and able to stop any time I begin to feel uncomfortable (again, suuuper shy and nervous, so that would probably happen a couple times)

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Ideally, yes. I like the idea of maybe wearing a corset, latex catsuits, and some other stuff. I'm new to it all, so I have no real specifics other than the fact I love corsets
Include sex and orgasm:Never
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Gloves, Other
Response:Laughing, Joking, Pleasurable Moans
Pain level:Just Red

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Messing with the Mind
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Rubber, PVC, Latex, Other
Ideal session:Same as I've mentioned in other sections: bound, gagged, fondled, spanked, stimulated with vibrators and/or dildos, and really... just experimenting to see what else I would enjoy potentially