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Open-minded, relatively new to BDSM....I prefer the role of the dom, but sometimes enjoy being a sub....

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I'm not much for sex in public places, unless it's deep in the woods and well hidden from view...Although I do have the fantasy of taking some topless pics of someone in a risky place
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Probably a bathroom at a party

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildSlender
Height183 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureLegs
CircumcisedNo

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitlePoet, tutor and webmaster

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI am ideally seeking a submissive woman in bed, but not necessarily in everyday life...I am pretty open-minded when it comes to body types, though I like a nice butt I can spank...

I want to find someone like me, not necessarily looking for anything serious at first, but we can see where it goes from there...
Our first dateIt could be a simple activity to get to know each other, such as going for a coffee or drink, a walk in a park, or going to a museum or restaurant.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
I enjoyBondage, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Whipping

Fetishes

FetishesMedical / Enema, Piercings, Tongue Fetish

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Every other month
Sex isAlways on my mind
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Anything involving urine, fesces or blood.

Biting (nibbling is OK)

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyAmong my many fantasies, I'd love to try a sex bench!
Fantasy sex partner:Someone who is a sub 90% of the time, open to many aspects of BDSM!

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
I like to wear:I'd love to spank a woman wearing a spanking dress....I've also seen spanking benches....
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Newspapers
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Light Marks