Working from home, and taking care of the house. Then meeting my lady at the door, helping her with her coat and shoes, before we enjoy the dinner I prepared. Afterward, preparing a bath for her and helping wash her back. Then an evening massage, and perhaps a bit of healthy rivalry with her sex toys. That's the relationship I've dreamed of, but I have no idea how to get there. Until then, I'd like to meet new people.

...and maybe learn a bit more about what makes for a successful relationship. I've tended to keep this to myself, since I don't like using it as a crutch, but it seems increasingly prudent to mention that I'm high functioning on the Autism Spectrum. People usually can't tell, but I do have some trouble figuring people out unless I'm explicitly told. That's part of what attracts me to the BDSM lifestyle, the expectation of honesty. Just, don't be surprised if I need a little direction through a conversation...