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Someone very new to BDSM looking for a long term relationship.

Sub Male (28) looking for Dominatrix York, Ontario, Canada

A newbie when it comes to BDSM. I just discovered my kinks for being dominated by women and being used as their glorified toy fairly recently. I'm still unsure of most of my kinks but I'm willing to explore. I'm very easy going and have a dark and open sense of humor.

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Crossdressing

I preferTop / Versatile
Been with a crossdresserNo
Looking for someone passable?Yes
Crossdressing ExperienceI've seen a lot of it. Specially with femboy and I'm really into girly looking boys as well.

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Soft and Slow

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Honestly I'm kinda a fan of public sex but I've never done it before. If I had to pick a place then maybe public bathrooms.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:I've never really taken a risk having sex in public.

Facesitting Preferences

What kind of facesitting do you like?I don't care
Being bound while red:Yes
Describe your favorite facesitting fantasyBeing tied up and forced to enjoy a mistresses or femboy sitting on my facr and pleasuring them.
Do you look at facesitting as a form of punishment?Yes

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageCanadian
BuildStocky
Height185 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairFull beard
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyMunicipal / Law Enforcement
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleOffice worker

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchHonestly if I had to think of a perfect match. It would be someone that I can love spending time with, that has generally a good sense of humor and is all round just fun to be around and spend day to day tasks with. Obviously with a kinkyness attached as well.
Our first dateFirst dates I'm not too picky. It can range from seeing a movie to trying things out in bed. I'm more concerned if we're both enjoying our time together.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Collar & lead / leash, Cross dressing, Femdom, Food play, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Tickling games, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasAgain I'm extremely new to this and have only recently discovered my kinks. The most pleasurable or kinkiest thing was I was forcefully sucked off while sleeping but that's about it.

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, ring, Tongue Fetish, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkI want to try it
Night life:Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Anything that's really extreme. Scat, watersports, gore, etc. I'm into/open to most things unless it is way too much for me then I will say it.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI really would like to explore being dominated by a caring female. Being treated as a sex toy for her pleasure and being bossed around and told what to do sexually. I find it a really big turn on to have that power bottom kinda servant top sorta thing.
Fantasy locationDark alley, Kitchen, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Movie theatre, Dressing room, Public bathroom
Fantasy sex partner:My ultimate sex party would have to be a woman with big power bottom fantasys that would enjoy bossing me around in the bed but having a fun enjoyable loving relationship outside of the bed.

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Leather, Latex
Ideal session:My ideal session with a mistress would have to be being demanded to fuck her the way she likes and following those orders.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:Being treated as a glorified dildo in bed for a power bottom femdom. Leash and leather and all. Just overall being told what to do in bed.