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I am highly intelligent, driven, funny, happy and motivated.
Now enough about my vanilla side!!!
I am a switch, but really identify much more with my submissive side.
I would like to find the right dominant for me.
I have now been in the lifestyle for several years and know a lot more about what I enjoy. I don't live the lifestyle 24/7, but during play with a dom, I am a slave. I enjoy pain, degradation, bondage and the likes.

I'm a switch so I do sometimes play with subs of my own.

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?The park!
But have many fantasies
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?The closet during a new years eve party


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageCanadian
Height5' 5" (165 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Cup sizeC
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleSports related treatments

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchSomeone who ideally is calmer than me in our day to day life, but isn't afraid to try new things. Someone who doesn't look down on a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality and enjoys many fetishes.
I prefer a man between 28-40.
Our first dateA coffee, a walk, a drink, something where I can get to know the person.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Fisting, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Kidnapping, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI was told to lay out different devices I wanted used on me, put on lingerie, a blindfold and kneel in the hall.
He came in, used all the toys until I was left with gorgeous bruises. He used me and left.


FetishesExhibitionism, Feathers, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Tickling, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Once a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Office supplies, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Blood, scat, underage, ***********

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI've always fantasized about being tied up, and left there, having my master come to me whenever he wants to play or to tease me, making me beg for his cock.
Or a gangbang
Or being turned into a service slave
I can go on
Fantasy locationMoving car, Kitchen, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Parents house, My office
Fantasy sex partner:A dom who is a sadist and enjoys sharing.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:There isn't enough space to list ;)
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Shoes, Belt